Wednesday, June 17, 2015

20th Anniversary

Hello followers! It's been awhile since I've updated. Things have been going good until a few days ago. Ava some how got a cold. It's moving to her lungs now so she is coughing quite a bit. She's such a trouper though doing her steroids and her inhalers. She's a pro and makes it look easy. A few days ago she complained of a very sore throat. I took her to the doctor and she thought it was just a viral infection. That requires no antibiotics so we will wait it out. The very next day came the cough.... yes not what we want at all. Send her some prayers this will end soon. Ava is enjoying the Summer on our new trampoline! She's a live wire! No kidding! This was her on the last day of school.



Brian and I met 22 years ago today and also got married on this very day 20 years ago. Looking back I can't believe all the things that have happened in our lives. If you would have told me I was going to have three beautiful girls I would have blushed with joy! As I reflected on many pictures I couldn't help but put them into a video. As I was uploading I noticed that they wouldn't accept the music that I had chosen due to copyright so I had to go back through it and add something I had created myself. When Ava was in the NICU after birth I would sing her the song, "I Surrender All." It was one of my favorite songs growing up and it still is. We seriously didn't know if we would bring our baby girl home... and wow did God bless us! I recorded these songs only to my computer so they are not the best of quality.... however they do serve the purpose of summing up our last 20 years. God Bless!

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~Terri

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Allergy and Nephrology Appointments

Good Morning Everyone! It's been a little while since I've updated. Things have been running smoothly. Ava had appointments in Iowa City yesterday. There were a few things I was concerned about and wanted further testing.

I myself battled a very bad chest cough and cold the last few weeks but am finally back to normal. I prayed daily that no one else would get it and God answered my prayer as no one did!

Ava never complains of doctors appointments. She's such a trouper! We even had to leave at 6:30 in the morning. Almost everyone commented on her pink hair and how tall she is for her age. I'm thrilled that she is healthy!



First we saw Dr.Diana Bayer with Allergy/Pulmonary. Ava is "allergic" to many pain medicines, a few regular medicines and an antibiotic. I wanted to know if they were true allergies or if we could test her to see if she could tolerate them again if need arises? The doctor was quite sure that her reactions to the pain drugs had to do with "the typical" side effects most people get so she thought that if Ava needed them again in the future they would be "okay" to given. She explained that drugs like Morphine, Fentanyl, hydromorphone and other in that category normally cause itching. I understand this but when these drugs were given to Ava it was beyond bad itching. In the PICU she nearly scratched her nose raw, even after they gave her antihistamines to counteract the effect. There are a few other drugs that do odd things to her as well so we just decided to stay away from them and continue to call them "allergies" on her chart. A SEVERE allergy is one where your throat swells, you have trouble breathing or your blood pressure goes up or down drastically to the point of causing death. So she doesn't have THAT kind of an affect but with her the effects range from slow heart rate, itching, rash, burns, desaturations, and restlessness. ALL of those are very unpleasant. So with Ava we just do what WORKS well for her!

She had to do another Pulmonary lung function test.... again not one of her favorite things to do. Here is her doing her last one. She still hasn't got it down fully but she is doing much better. They are very hard even for an adult to do. First you have to breath normally then wrap your lips around a tube like thing, next you take a deep breath in and blow and blow all the air out of your lungs for about 15 seconds (without taking a breath) THEN take a deep breath in. It is harder than it looks. She had done about 4 before this one so she was pretty worn out.

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There is a lot of waiting in between doctors and tests.... she takes her iPad and keeps herself entertained. She doesn't fit on the table anymore! Her legs are just too long.


Next doctor we saw was Dr. Diana Zepeda-Orozco from Nephrology. She deals with the kidneys. Ava had severe kidney issues in the PICU when she became septis in 2009 but once that was taken care of she didn't have any other issues. However, Ava has never been able to stop using pull-ups at night. It worries me that her bladder or kidneys may have an issue. She gave a urine test and that came back normal. She also did blood work. We will be getting those results soon. Ava also had an ultrasound of her kidneys yesterday. The doctor thought the ultrasound looked fine to her. She wants us to make Ava use the bathroom every three hours and limit her water at 7 pm.  She also wants us to start waking her at night to do potty. (All this we have tried with no luck.) I hate waking her. She is such a hard sleeper and then once awake she can't go back to sleep. But we will try and see. If after 4 months things are the same she will then have to go to a urologist for further testing. 

We ran into Josh, Ava's surgical nurse practitioner as we were almost done. It is always so good to see him. He has been through this entire life journey with us. It brings so many memories back and each time I see him I see hope in his eyes. If every person could have such an amazing NP as Josh this world would be a better place!

The children's hospital is still under construction so each time we get a picture. 



All in all a good visit. It was totally cool that when we stepped outside it was almost 80 degrees at 1:00. We ate at Ava's choice... Olive Garden! It's extra special when Brian can go with us. Ava adores her Daddy. Ava is doing well in school and loves her friends and teacher. It's awesome to see her so happy. A week ago I was going through Ava's blog... sometimes I just can't believe that THIS little girl has been through so much. We are so blessed and give God all the glory.

Thanks for checking in on Ava. As always we appreciate your love, support and prayers!

~The Helmick

Friday, January 16, 2015

Happy 2015!

Hello Ava followers! We had a big day of Iowa City appointments and tests! Ava first saw Dr. Reinking her cardiologist. We love him! (It's a bonus that he's easy on the eyes.) He listens to Ava and me. He also realized that as I told him in November Ava was NOT her normal self as he could clearly see today. She is a wild child! She speaks her mind and has a hard time sitting still. It was good to take her to an appointment HEALTHY so they can see her in her good times too! The results of the Heart Holter monitor in November showed that her heart was strong and healthy. It did bring concen to him that her heart rate dropped to 42 beats per minute while she slept. He was happy to hear that her heart rate returned to normal shortly after the medicine (Zithromax) left her system. I strongly feel this was the reason for her slowed heart rate.

Dr. Reinking checking her pulse. She laughed at him. He commented that he loved her penguin socks.



She is growing like a weed. She weighs 54 pounds and her height is 4 feet 6 inches.

She got another EKG while there... she's a pro at this!



He thought we could skip doing another holter test as she seemed back to normal but I told him I'd really like to do one to get her real baseline "normal" heart rate. He will be shocked at the difference I know it! Here is how different she was... her appointment in November when she was having the lower heart rate was 62 in the office. Today she was 92. EVERYTHING she was doing was the same. She was just sitting on the table. This was NOT normal for her and VERY scary for me. She's always had a SUPER high heart rate.

So he absolutely, with no hesitation agreed that we could do the test. Here is her getting hooked up in case you aren't aware of what a Holter test consists of... she wears this for an entire 24 hours. It hooks to her jeans. It's very light weight and easy to wear. There is five wires that connect to the monitor. She is supposed to do everything as she normally would. I guess playing "Just Dance" with Emeline is okay then.... that's what they are doing now!


Here is Ava getting her heart holter monitor on today.


We then had her Pulmonary function test are a group of tests that measure how well the lungs take in and release air. and how well they move gasses such as oxygen from the atmosphere into the body's circulation. Ava is still "learning" how to do this test. It's tough on her. Today during the test Ava got really discouraged. She started to cry. We tried to tell her she was doing a wonderful job and that it was just a test to see how she could do but if she didn't feel like she "could" do the test that was okay too. It's not normal to take a deep breath in then blow all the air out of your lungs for 8 seconds then take a deep breath in. She will get better with age and practice. The test shows that her lungs are pretty well for all she's been through. Sadly there isn't a way to separate the lungs and single on out from the other.

Here was part of the test. As you can see she is still learning...


Ava waiting patiently... LOVE her ipad in these times!


We saw a wonderful nurse practitioner named Samantha Lee from Pulmonology today. I really liked her! Ava was so tired of being there so she was being onry. We discussed possibly doing a ventilation-perfusion (VQ) scan. It is a nuclear scan that uses radioactive material to examine airflow (ventilation) and blood flow (perfusion) in the lungs. I was always a little scared to know exactly how bad Ava's left lung was but now I think that knowing is a good thing PLUS we can have a baseline because... could it possibly get better or worse? That's what I'd like to know. It will not change Ava's care or medication but it will give us more answers. She was going to check on it and let me know soon. We set up another followup in 6 months. All in all it was a great day.

Going there (to the children's hospital) makes me feel such gratitude. SItting there waiting... brings back so many bad memories. I see child after child very sick and some the way Ava was... hanging onto life in some ways. Ava is such a Miracle and God is to be given ALL the glory. We've been so BLESSED. I try not to take it for granted yet not dwell on the struggles. I went back through her blog and want you to see how AMAZING GOD IS! This was just 6 year ago to the day. We were dealing with an open stomach AT HOME and IV and g tube feeds. We were afraid for her future as she wasn't getting well but stuck in sickness. Her brain stopped learning new things. Her full focus was on getting better... but she STILL could SMILE! How did we do it?? She's come so far!


She's a trouper! We pray that 2015 is healthy and she will continue to thrive! We cherish your love, support and prayers. Here is a few pictures I took of her and her sisters not long ago. Life is a challenge sometimes but worth EVERY second! All of our girls are such gifts from God. I'm so proud of all of them!





Love and cherish all the time you have here.... God has special plans for ALL of us!

~Terri Helmick

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Sickness so soon

Hello friends! Ava is not feeling well again. A few days ago she started coughing. The school called yesterday to tell me she had a fever. I picked her up and felt sad for her.I started her Prednisolone yesterday as it tends to help her kick the cough much faster than anything. I took her to the doctor this morning. Ava was feeling so bad that she was shaking (chills and fever) then when she finally got warm (The nurse brought her a nice warm blanket.) she fell asleep on the examining table. Poor peanut... you know she is sick when she can't even smile. The doctor said her lungs didn't sound very good so she sent us to x rays at the hospital. I made her wear a mask... not just her spreading germs but I didn't want her picking up anything more.

I took a few quick pictures as she was getting her x rays. She is such a pro at this!




I got her antibiotic (Cefdinir) and some lunch. She fell asleep shortly after eating. I'm hoping we aren't looking at pneumonia. She has such a bad and constant cough. She will be missing out on her Christmas party at school. I do the school's yearbook so I will have to go and take pictures. I'll pick up her treats so hopefully that will make her feel better.

A few weeks ago I had an IEP meeting with her school. She is really struggling. It seems that they are moving much to fast for her. (2nd grade for ya!) She feels like she is drowning in learning it all. She was doing well in math but since they threw in money she is totally lost. We decided to add a math help along with her already special reading teacher. She gets one on one help. I hate seeing her struggle. She is on level 9 in reading and yet should be at a level 22 or 24 I think by now. I myself wasn't a great reader and school was often hard. We kept her back an extra year for fear of this... yet it is still happening. She is a hard worker for sure. We encourage her and let her know that everyone has to work extra hard at somethings. I wish there was an easy button!

We got the results from her Holter Monitor test. Her lowest heart rate was 41 and her high heart rate was 132. This is WAY lower than normal. Ava's normal would be from 70-160. They will retest her again in January. Her heart rate became normal 6 days after the use of the antibiotic, Zithromax. I highly think it was this drug that made her heart rate decrease. I just hope that it doesn't happen with another antibiotic. I'll be watching her close.

On a side note about me... I had my follow-up colonoscopy in December and they found a small polyp. It was no where near the size of my cancer polyp they found in December 2012. (Which was cancerous.) This one had no cancer in it but this "kind" of polyp sometimes does turn into cancer. The doctor did remove it and I will have another followup colonoscopy next year. I still believe if it wasn't for Ava and my heart for advocating the cancer could have spread and been a lot harder than surgery to contain it. I praise God each day. My words of wisdom.... if something doesn't "feel" right please go to the doctor and get checked. It could save your life! I'm very fortunate. Advocating for our children some how seems primal.... advocating for ourselves, different some how? It shouldn't be!

I just got the results of her x ray and her lungs were clear so that is GREAT! Now we just need to keep them that way. Thanks again for your love, support and prayers. I enjoy reading your comments on the carepage and all the support we get on the blog. It means so much to us that you care so deeply for little Ava and our family.

I will leave you with our family photos taken last Friday. How in the world does life pass by so quickly? Lexis is 16, Emeline is 14 and Ava is 8. We are so very Blessed.

This was a hairstyle that I did on Ava before she was sick. She is willing to let me try anything. I got this idea off the internet! How cute is this?


Have a VERY Merry Christmas everyone!


~Terri Helmick






Monday, November 24, 2014

Heart update

Hello Ava friends and followers! Thanks for all the prayers. 

Ava is feeling better! We are still waiting on the holter monitoring test results but her blood work came back "normal". We (our local doctor and I) strongly feel that the antibiotic Zithromax caused this decrease in her heart rate.  It lowered her heart rate 20-40 beats slower per minute. Zithromax stays in your system for about 5 days after you take the last pill. Her dose was 250 mgs, one pill a day for 5 days. She has been on this drug before and never had a problem. It boggles my mind... this antibiotic is a really good drug to help clear infections out of Ava's lungs. I can be thankful that during this last cold she wasn't that bad. If her lungs would have been weak and she would have had this low heart rate things could have gotten bad really fast. 

I have to stay on top of things and I thank God that He gives us tools like monitors and Mother's intuition to know that... well things just aren't right! It is not like Ava to lay around and fall asleep. Our Ava is always hopping and bopping and driving us nuts. She sings! She dances! She is an active, happy girl! We are happy to see her active again!

We really appreciate all your love, support and prayers!

~Terri